What Are the Three Deepest Desires Humans Have? 

Are you aware of a deep desire within you to be who you truly are in all parts of your life? We all have a deep thirst for personal freedom, inner wellbeing, and creative self-expression. How long ago did you water down or give up on your drive to be your truest self? Or did you instead end up focusing primarily on being yourself above all else?

Are you aware of a deep inner desire to feel more fully and happily connected with others? Is that still alive within you?  We all have a deep inner need to feel cared about and loved, and to care about and love others as well.  We all have a deep thirst to co-create with others things that we cannot create entirely on our own. When did you decide you were going to have to settle for a pale reflection of the connection you want, or even give up on ever finding connection at all? Or did you instead so deeply want connection with others that you gave up aspects of yourself in your quest to get it?

Are you aware of a deep desire to have impact, to make a truly positive difference in the world?We all have this deep thirst as well. When did you decide you couldn't really have much impact in the world and that you were better off simply looking out for number one? Or did you instead become so focused on making a difference that you sacrificed your own wellbeing and your relationships with those you most care about in the process?

We all need to: 1) Feel personal wellbeing and feel free to be ourselves; 2) Enjoy connection with others; and 3) Make a positive difference in the world. These are our Three Core Drives as human beings:

  1. Authenticity
  2. Connection
  3. Impact
What Is Your Relationship With Your Three Core Drives?
How deeply satisfied are you with:
  1. Your level of authenticity, of self-expression and self-care?
  2. The depth, durability, joyfulness and productivity of your connections with others in your personal and work life?
  3. The extent to which, and ways in which, you are making a positive difference in the world?

How aligned and coordinated are these Three Core Drives within you? How much is your daily life about: 1) Being your truest self; 2) Connecting and co-creating with others; 3) Making a positive difference on behalf of collective highest good?

Take a free quiz to discover more about your relationship with your Three Core Drives - click HERE!

 

Most People's Three Core Drives Are Out of Alignment

Many of us are primarily focused on only one of our Three Core Drives (authenticity, connection and impact). Many others of us largely live in Psychological Survival Mode, which makes it impossible to express the high side of any of our Three Core Drives.

This leads to three results:
1) Individuals feeling an inner sense of emptiness or unfulfillment no matter what they try to do;
2) Relationships being conflicted, unstable and unproductive no matter what we try; and
3) Humanity facing its most perilous time in history (and, as a result, the same is true of our planet)!

 

Fortunately, there is one solution to all three of these problems (personal suffering or lack of fulfillment, relationship distress, and social, religious & political issues of all kinds). Better yet, every one of us has the power to use this one solution to simultaneously become more authentic, deepen connection with others and make a positive difference in the world!

That power comes from harnessing The Integrity Effect: aligning all three of your Three Core Drives so they work together rather than compete against each other.

The secret to doing this is developing the seven sets of life skills that are the basic ingredients of personal authenticity, relationship synergy and serving highest good. This is the key to integrated development in the 21st century. This is the solution to our worldwide pandemic of lack of integrity.

Learn how to do this in The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships and Our World - click HERE!

Can You Imagine How Much More Fulfilling Your Life Will Be When You Live in Fuller Integrity With All Three of Your Core Drives?

Imagine what YOUR life would be like if you lived in fuller integrity with all three of your Core Drives. Imagine how your life would be if you could be authentic, connected and of service all at the same time. How fulfilled would you feel, day in and day out? Is that too much to ask for? Or, isn't that what life is supposed to be about?

Imagine what the world would be like if more of us lived in integrity with all three of our Core Drives for:
1) Personal Authenticity; 2) Connection with Others; 3) Being in Service to Collective Highest Good.

Isn't it wonderful when the same things that are good for you serve the world as well? Is this what you would like?

Have you ever considered that the reason so many people feel so unfulfilled today no matter how hard they try is because they have focused on only one or two of their Three Core Drives?

  • How many people do you think have even given up on all three of their Core Drives, opting instead for living live primarily from Survival mode?
  • What kind of world do you think is created by communities, businesses and countries that are full of these kinds of people? Welcome to today's world!

Imagine what the world would be like if more of us lived in integrity with all three of our Core Drives:
1) Personal Authenticity; 2) Connection with Others; 3) Being in Service to Collective Highest Good.

Imagine what YOUR life would be like if you lived in integrity with all three of your Core Drives.

Isn't it wonderful when the same things that are good for you serve the world as well? Is this what you would like?

Take a free quiz to discover more about your relationship with your Three Core Drives - click HERE!
Learn more about The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships and Our World - click HERE!

What Is the Secret to Aligning Your Three Core Drives? 

The secret to aligning your Three Core Drives so they work with each other rather than compete against each other is developing 3D Integrity (aligning all three of your Three Core Drives so they work together rather than compete against each other.). The same basic ingredients are needed for personal authenticity, relationship synergy and serving highest good. Developing these ingredients is how to harness the vast power of The Integrity Effect.

3D Integrity is truly what personal, relationship and leadership development is supposed to be all about. In fact, this is what it needs to be about... for the sake of humanity and the planet as much as for the sake of personal fulfillment and relationship success.

Do you want to move into fuller expression and alignment among all three of your Core Drives?

  • The New IQ provides you with a complete road map and system for doing this.
  • The New IQ Integrity Makeover Workbook contains ten powerful modules containing eye-opening self-assessments and skills-building exercises designed to help you take charge of upgrading your relationship with all three of your core drives at the same time!

 

 

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